Walking in a garden enhances joy and gives pleasure to our senses. Sometimes weeds also grow in the beds of flowers, sometimes they grow without any control in the flower beds or anywhere in the garden. Some weeds are too smelly,weeds with thorns or weeds causing pain or wounds in the body are very dangerous, they may be fatal also.
Our lives is also like a garden, where many beautiful experiences are like flowers that give us pleasure and beautiful moments. People who cause pain or unrest in our lives are like these weeds, they are harmful for everyone.
above comparison came to my mind when I was thinking about some people who are there in my life , and are expanding their arms in my own people's lives.
Today when I am trying to see the beautiful flowers in the garden of my life, I found very few flowers..Oh my God...where have all the flowers gone?? Are the plants dying? ...yes, i tried to locate those flowering plants..and I found the dead, dry stems of those plants which flowered most fragrant flowers.. even the soil that held the roots was parched and dry..I was so shocked.. most of the place in the garden was covered by the weeds and weeds had started growing all around, I found myself standing there where weeds had surrounded me with its thorns and ugly branches...
Yes, I am reviewing my life today, I remember those days when I had calm and peaceful time, I was happy and could laugh on any small funny thing... I am trying to see that picture of mine where I used to adorn myself, I was so happy..But today, I am a shattered soul, haggard and broken woman.
And it is because there is a very strong and dangerous weed that has been growing in my garden of LIFE.
The person who is causing such pain and wounds is a person who is having a dual personality.His looks are deceptive, his behavior is fake, his thought process is dirty, his attitude is fake, in totality he is a wicked man. With others, or in some group, or in society he boasts too much. His way of talking and behavior projects what he WANTS to show others and impresses them, this is his great quality. I wonder how does he do this? Boasting is his favorite pastime.
At home, he is very clumsy, dirty, ill behaved. He is very suspicious, self centered,stingy and clever. He loses his temper on any small thing, and then he starts showing his true colours. The way foul words slips out from his mouth, abuses come out so easily, its really something unbelievable. He says, abusive, dirty and foul words are very common, these days every man utters such words, even in films they use such language...( this is why I like Censor to control dialogue writers)....
In his anger he screams shouts..hurling abuses,throwing shower of his spit..his face gets distorted and behavior gets weird.. Oh God..his snake like eyes ,,in which pupils move so briskly....he pounces on his enemy(wife...who else??) He shouts and whole floor listens..this is really terrible..
I can go on and on...my writing can go on..but I think this introduction is enough... and this is the WEED that has grown in my garden, his presence has dried my garden where flowers of happiness, hope,joy and fun were growing...
Anger eats you up, really it destroys the person who contains anger within. Anger destroys completely.
Life is really precious, we all get one life, who knows about next birth? One should enjoy life fully. Enjoyment does not mean we need to have fun all the time. Doing what you like is enjoyment. Laughing easily, helping others, traveling, loving, admiring Nature, listening to chirping birds...this is Enjoyment..doing what gives you pleasure is enjoyment.
When age reaches to other side of 50, you start realizing your mistakes, blunders and your own carelessness.
Person who has Anger and Ego as his second nature can not think of all this. He plans and strategize for his next move. Its dangerous. Neither he lives his life nor he let others.
Its difficult to control anger, I know, , I will now try to control mine.
Unfulfilled desires, expectations,Ego,any type of complex, fear,aimlessness.....there are so many factors that trigger anger.
Why can't we zero it out.. I mean the cause?
I pray to God..give us wisdom... compassion and faith...
Amen.
Our lives is also like a garden, where many beautiful experiences are like flowers that give us pleasure and beautiful moments. People who cause pain or unrest in our lives are like these weeds, they are harmful for everyone.
above comparison came to my mind when I was thinking about some people who are there in my life , and are expanding their arms in my own people's lives.
Today when I am trying to see the beautiful flowers in the garden of my life, I found very few flowers..Oh my God...where have all the flowers gone?? Are the plants dying? ...yes, i tried to locate those flowering plants..and I found the dead, dry stems of those plants which flowered most fragrant flowers.. even the soil that held the roots was parched and dry..I was so shocked.. most of the place in the garden was covered by the weeds and weeds had started growing all around, I found myself standing there where weeds had surrounded me with its thorns and ugly branches...
Yes, I am reviewing my life today, I remember those days when I had calm and peaceful time, I was happy and could laugh on any small funny thing... I am trying to see that picture of mine where I used to adorn myself, I was so happy..But today, I am a shattered soul, haggard and broken woman.
And it is because there is a very strong and dangerous weed that has been growing in my garden of LIFE.
The person who is causing such pain and wounds is a person who is having a dual personality.His looks are deceptive, his behavior is fake, his thought process is dirty, his attitude is fake, in totality he is a wicked man. With others, or in some group, or in society he boasts too much. His way of talking and behavior projects what he WANTS to show others and impresses them, this is his great quality. I wonder how does he do this? Boasting is his favorite pastime.
At home, he is very clumsy, dirty, ill behaved. He is very suspicious, self centered,stingy and clever. He loses his temper on any small thing, and then he starts showing his true colours. The way foul words slips out from his mouth, abuses come out so easily, its really something unbelievable. He says, abusive, dirty and foul words are very common, these days every man utters such words, even in films they use such language...( this is why I like Censor to control dialogue writers)....
In his anger he screams shouts..hurling abuses,throwing shower of his spit..his face gets distorted and behavior gets weird.. Oh God..his snake like eyes ,,in which pupils move so briskly....he pounces on his enemy(wife...who else??) He shouts and whole floor listens..this is really terrible..
I can go on and on...my writing can go on..but I think this introduction is enough... and this is the WEED that has grown in my garden, his presence has dried my garden where flowers of happiness, hope,joy and fun were growing...
Anger eats you up, really it destroys the person who contains anger within. Anger destroys completely.
Life is really precious, we all get one life, who knows about next birth? One should enjoy life fully. Enjoyment does not mean we need to have fun all the time. Doing what you like is enjoyment. Laughing easily, helping others, traveling, loving, admiring Nature, listening to chirping birds...this is Enjoyment..doing what gives you pleasure is enjoyment.
When age reaches to other side of 50, you start realizing your mistakes, blunders and your own carelessness.
Person who has Anger and Ego as his second nature can not think of all this. He plans and strategize for his next move. Its dangerous. Neither he lives his life nor he let others.
Its difficult to control anger, I know, , I will now try to control mine.
Unfulfilled desires, expectations,Ego,any type of complex, fear,aimlessness.....there are so many factors that trigger anger.
Why can't we zero it out.. I mean the cause?
I pray to God..give us wisdom... compassion and faith...
Amen.
